Billie Eilish and her brother Finneas, who have collaborated on many hit songs, recently opened up about their biggest argument and the lessons they’ve learned from it. Their close bond has been tested by creative conflicts, but it has also strengthened their relationship.
The Feet-in-the-Face Incident
Billie shared that their most intense argument happened during a recording session when Finneas’s feet accidentally ended up in her face. This led to a heated exchange, highlighting how even small annoyances can escalate in a high-pressure environment.
Songwriting Struggles and Creative Conflict
In an interview with Apple Music’s Zane Lowe, Billie and Finneas talked about a major disagreement they had over their song “Hit Me Hard and Soft.” Finneas felt that they weren’t capturing the true emotions of the song. “It seemed like there were emotional barriers,” he said, emphasizing the importance of genuine feelings in their music.
Learning from Ego and Emotions
Finneas explained that songwriting often draws from personal experiences, which can be challenging to confront. He recalled asking Billie about the meaning of the song, and she would sometimes respond with, “It’s about nothing.” This made him realize the need for deeper emotional honesty in their work.
Encouraging True Expression
Finneas encouraged Billie to express her true feelings, even if they were difficult. This approach helped them create music that resonated more deeply with their own experiences and emotions.
Lessons Learned
Billie reflected on the experience, saying, “I learned a lot from being too ego-centric.” Their argument taught them both the importance of communication, patience, and understanding in their creative partnership.
Through their challenges, Billie and Finneas continue to grow as artists and siblings, using their experiences to create music that connects with people around the world.